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#RI-69ba7778·6 months ago·
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“discovered husband's infidelity”

Discovered husband's infidelity through old message, similar to past cheating incidents

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been more vigilant"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore red flags, even if you've worked through issues before"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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