personalrelationship
#RI-69ba75e3·4 months ago·
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“Disagree on having a gun in the home”
What Actually Happened
I feel uncomfortable and unsafe with a gun in our home, and it's causing tension in our relationship
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had expressed my concerns about the gun earlier when he first got it"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your values and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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