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#RI-6a7aaba6·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 years into relationship

Having dirty thoughts and sneaking a peek at tenant

I've had dirty thoughts about my tenant and snuck a peek at her undergarments, feeling guilty and disgusted

What I wish I knew
"How to control my desires and maintain a healthy relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek professional help and be honest with your partner about your struggles"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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