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RelationshipTrust Issues
#RI-6a7aa925·5 months ago·
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Dug too deep into girlfriend's past

Discovered girlfriend had multiple short-term flings before me, challenged my trust

What I wish I knew
"More about her past before asking"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner about past, don't assume"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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