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relationshipUnresolved feelings after breakup
#RI-69ba75db·4 months ago·
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Didn't fully understand partner's needs

Partner ended things, citing growth in different directions. Left letter expressing love and hope for future.

What I wish I knew
"How deeply moving in was important to my partner."
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and understand each other's needs before making decisions."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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