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#RI-6ae95ea6·5 months ago·
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“Joined husband at the gym with toddler”

My husband blamed me for our toddler's freakout, making me feel ashamed and frustrated

What I wish I knew
"His gym time was more important to him than my needs"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your needs and feelings"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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