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#RI-69a91199·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 1/2 years into relationship

“Defended Shia LaBeouf despite DV allegations”

Boyfriend posted Shia LaBeouf interview, ignored DV allegations, and made jokes about them

What I wish I knew
"He was secretly a fan of abusive celebrities"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who defend abusers"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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