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#RI-69a911aa·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 months after sister's wedding

Declined sister's destination wedding invitation due to dislike of groom, location, and cost

My sister got married without me, and I'm being blamed for grandparents not attending

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been more upfront about my reasons for not attending"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with family about your reasons for not attending a wedding"
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2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
Would make the same decision again.
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