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#RI-69a91741·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year after breakup

Decided to set up no contact

Ex sent a 4-minute voice message after I blocked her, trying to flirt and offer help for a music exam

What I wish I knew
"How to deal with her persistent contact"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and be firm in enforcing them"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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