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#RI-69ba7707·4 months ago·
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Decided to hide kinks

Fiancé judged me for kinks, felt embarrassed

What I wish I knew
"Communication before judgment"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be open and honest about desires"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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