relationshipRetroactive Jealousy
#RI-69ba76d0·4 months ago·
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“Dealing with girlfriend's past hurts me”
What Actually Happened
Girlfriend's past (>10 partners, child with ex, one night stand) haunts me
What I wish I knew
"How to fully accept her past"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner about past and feelings"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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