relationalinsecurity
#RI-69a9197b·2 months ago·
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“Dating someone who makes me feel inferior”
What Actually Happened
I constantly feel inferior to my boyfriend due to his intelligence, wealth, and accomplishments, making me feel like the 'lamest little boring girl'.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he didn't feel the same way about me, that he valued me for who I am, not just my 'chill' nature."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for a relationship that makes you feel inferior, you deserve to be with someone who admires and appreciates you."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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