What Actually Happened
I constantly feel inferior to my boyfriend due to his intelligence, wealth, and accomplishments, making me feel like the 'lamest little boring girl'.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he didn't feel the same way about me, that he valued me for who I am, not just my 'chill' nature."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for a relationship that makes you feel inferior, you deserve to be with someone who admires and appreciates you."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Impact
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