personalAbuse
#RI-69ba79f4·4 months ago·
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“Dating someone who initially pursued me”
What Actually Happened
My ex-boyfriend's emotional distance and lack of support led to a traumatic experience.
What I wish I knew
"To be more cautious and set clear boundaries in relationships"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and prioritize your own emotional well-being"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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