RelationshipsAvoidant Relationship
#RI-69ba7a34·6 months ago·
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“Dating an avoidant for 2 years”
What Actually Happened
He recorded my mental health spirals without consent, then used it as leverage in our argument
What I wish I knew
"He would never change his behavior"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in a relationship where you're constantly hurt and disrespected"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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