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#RI-69ba7a34·4 months ago·
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Dating an avoidant for 2 years

He recorded my mental health spirals without consent, then used it as leverage in our argument

What I wish I knew
"He would never change his behavior"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in a relationship where you're constantly hurt and disrespected"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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