PersonalRelationship
#RI-6ab3adb9·4 months ago·
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“Went out with a woman I barely knew”
What Actually Happened
I dated a woman who turned out to be a psycho prostitute. She was abusive and manipulative, and I ignored red flags. She had a history of abusing animals and was involved in the escort business. I found out she was pregnant and she aborted our child. I was emotionally drained and humiliated by the experience.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known about her past and her true nature before getting involved with her"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of people who show you only a positive side and ignore red flags, especially if they have a history of abuse or manipulation"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Personal Category
10
Personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
70%
of Personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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