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#RI-69a9122f·2 months ago·
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Dated someone with memory issues

My partner constantly misremembers things we've done together, making me feel like I'm not part of her memories.

What I wish I knew
"She might have undiagnosed memory issues or trauma"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and concerns, and consider seeking professional help together"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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