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#RI-69a9175b·2 months ago·
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Dated someone who didn't reciprocate effort

He broke up with me after I asked for more effort and reassurance

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he wasn't willing to change"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't keep hoping they'll come back, focus on healing"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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