Relationshipscoworker relationship
#RI-69f87606·7 months ago·
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“dated coworker for 2 months”
What Actually Happened
he said he can't commit, left me shocked
What I wish I knew
"he has a pattern of shutting down during stress"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be cautious of emotional unavailability"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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