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relationalcoworker relationship
#RI-69f87606·5 months ago·
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dated coworker for 2 months

he said he can't commit, left me shocked

What I wish I knew
"he has a pattern of shutting down during stress"
If I could tell you one thing
"be cautious of emotional unavailability"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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