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#RI-69b3bcdf·3 months ago·
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Dated a girl who was sleeping with my boss

I found out my girlfriend was sleeping with my boss, a 52-year-old man, after she made dog treats for my dog and flirted with me at work.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was already in a relationship with my boss before we started dating"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious when dating someone who is secretive about their past or their relationships with others"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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