Relationshipsin-laws
#RI-6a6b07c0·9 months ago·
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“date my girlfriend, realizing her lack of effort with my family”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend has consistently refused to put in effort with my family, dodging visits and events, and prioritizing her own needs over mine
What I wish I knew
"she would be willing to make an effort to connect with my family"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your needs and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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