What Actually Happened
I tried to please my fiancée by cutting off my parents, but it led to feelings of guilt and shame. I continued to secretly contact them, which caused more tension in our relationship.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had communicated my boundaries and needs more clearly with my fiancée instead of trying to compromise on my relationship with my parents."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't compromise your own values and relationships to save a relationship; it can lead to more harm in the long run."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
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Impact
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