ProfessionalBoundary
#RI-6a7aab67·4 months ago·
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“Crossed professional boundaries with elderly clients”
What Actually Happened
I deliberately flirted with elderly clients during massages, knowing it was unprofessional. I enjoyed the attention and reactions I got, but it compromised client trust.
What I wish I knew
"To keep personal feelings separate from work."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize professionalism."
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Professional Category
12
Professional decisions logged. Avg regret 6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
50%
of Professional decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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