“Crossed professional boundaries with elderly clients”

Item: Crossed professional boundaries with elderly clients
Rating: 1
Author: u/massagerotterdam

What Actually Happened

I deliberately flirted with elderly clients during massages, knowing it was unprofessional. I enjoyed the attention and reactions I got, but it compromised client trust.

What I wish I knew

"To keep personal feelings separate from work."

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Set clear boundaries and prioritize professionalism."

Regret Index

9/10

High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.

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Career Category

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Same Outcome Band

44%

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