LossMiscarriage
#RI-6af1e160·4 months ago·
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“decided to paint nursery”
What Actually Happened
Lost first son at 34 weeks, no heartbeat
What I wish I knew
"fetal heartbeat monitoring before 34 weeks"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Prepare for the unexpected in pregnancy"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.
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Loss Category
3
Loss decisions logged. Avg regret 10/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
100%
of Loss decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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