relationshipInfidelity
#RI-69f879b2·5 months ago·
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“Had anal sex with coworker”
What Actually Happened
He asked me to try anal sex, which I enjoyed, but he seemed unsure about it afterwards.
What I wish I knew
"He was conflicted about his feelings and desires."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your desires and boundaries."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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