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marriagetoxic relationship
#RI-6a23c97d·6 months ago·
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Tried couples therapy, then trial separation

Partner used therapy as a weapon, destructive patterns returned

What I wish I knew
"Healthy relationships exist"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set boundaries, prioritize self-care"
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5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
SettledMixedSevere

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