LifestyleFacing Past Criticism
#RI-6aad15fc·7 months ago·
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“Coped with past critic's outburst in sauna”
What Actually Happened
Past acquaintance called me names and said she never wanted to see me again after I ran into her at a wellness venue.
What I wish I knew
"How to handle confrontation without triggering self-harm urges."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Hold genuine accountability without accepting endless punishment or allowing one person's fixed view of you to undo years of recovery."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Lifestyle Category
2,331
Lifestyle decisions logged. Avg regret 5.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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