“Divorce is really hitting hard”

Hello all, first post here. But this is really hitting me hard.

I 33M and my wife 29F are getting a divorce. We were married 8 years and together almost 10 years. We have 2 children together. She filed back in January. We had a fight, not more than any other fight I did not think. We never really had many fights, just irritable moments where one or the other was upset. She sent me a few texts about things she wanted me to change to stay together. I contemplated them for a day and before I could