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#RI-69a91706·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 weeks after returning to work

Contacting ex after No Contact

We are No Contact on her terms, missing her desperately

What I wish I knew
"How to cope with emotions without contacting her"
If I could tell you one thing
"Give yourself time to heal before reaching out"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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