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#RI-6aa622e5·about 2 months ago·
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Contact his coworker to clarify the situation

Boyfriend's secrecy and insistence on not contacting coworker raised suspicions

What I wish I knew
"Why he's so adamant about not contacting her"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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