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Relationshipsmisaligned values
#RI-6a6b0355·9 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 years of relationship

“I confronted my roommates about their views”

I felt disappointed and frustrated with my girlfriend and roommates for not caring about social issues

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known they truly didn't care about the state of the world"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your loved ones about your values and concerns"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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