“Confront my bf about his resume”

Item: Confront my bf about his resume
Rating: 2
Author: u_bigthiqskull

What Actually Happened

I'm extremely angry and frustrated with my bf's lack of effort in his job search

What I wish I knew

"How to approach the conversation without being judgmental"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Be honest and direct while also being empathetic and non-confrontational"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

SettledMixedSevere

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relationship Category

743

relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

73%

of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.