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#RI-6ac32279·6 months ago·
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“Confront husband about hidden photos”

Found hidden folder of unflattering pictures on husband's phone, taken to show weight gain

What I wish I knew
"He was taking photos to shame me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner, set boundaries for phone use"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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