personalunrequited love
#RI-69f86a7d·5 months ago·
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“Tried to ignore feelings, then confessed love”
What Actually Happened
Developed strong romantic feelings for close friend, she rejected me twice
What I wish I knew
"Her feelings were genuine, but she wasn't ready for a relationship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and the other person, and respect their boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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