RelationshipsSense of Self
#RI-69abbec6·5 months ago·
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“Compromise my values for a partner”
What Actually Happened
I lost my sense of self while dating, compromising my values for a partner
What I wish I knew
"I should have stood by my values and preferences"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Maintain your sense of self and communicate your values and preferences clearly"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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