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#RI-69abbec6·3 months ago·
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Compromise my values for a partner

I lost my sense of self while dating, compromising my values for a partner

What I wish I knew
"I should have stood by my values and preferences"
If I could tell you one thing
"Maintain your sense of self and communicate your values and preferences clearly"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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