RelationshipsAbusive Behavior
#RI-69ba7634·6 months ago·
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“Compared boyfriend to his abusive father”
What Actually Happened
Told boyfriend I see his abusive father in him, leading to breakup
What I wish I knew
"To avoid comparing him to his father"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your feelings without comparing partners to their family members"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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