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#RI-6aa4d774·6 months ago·
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“Allowing soapboxing ruins the community”

Community became toxic and lost its spirit

What I wish I knew
"To set clear boundaries sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Avoid spreading negativity and focus on genuine discussion"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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