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#RI-6a7aaa1d·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years of marriage

Communicating with husband about health issues

My husband says I'm the problem due to my insecurities, threatening to leave due to communication problems

What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate my needs without being sensitive"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek couples therapy with a neutral therapist and prioritize open communication"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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