personalComing out
#RI-6a23ca7b·6 months ago·
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“Told mom I'm pansexual”
What Actually Happened
My mom's reaction to my coming out was extremely negative and hurtful, leading to feelings of shame and self-harm
What I wish I knew
"How to handle my mom's reaction in a healthier way"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be prepared for potential negative reactions from family members and prioritize self-care"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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