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RelationshipsComing Out
#RI-6a7aa9ad·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 1.5 years

Realized I'm not into men

I've been dating a guy for 1.5 years, but I'm attracted to women, causing me internal conflict.

What I wish I knew
"How to be honest with my boyfriend and family without hurting them."
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and kind when ending a relationship, prioritize the other person's feelings."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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