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relationalinfidelity
#RI-6a6b06ef·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 weeks after discovering his infidelity

stayed in marriage despite suspicions

Husband cheated and got another woman pregnant while I blamed myself for our marriage problems

What I wish I knew
"he was cheating all along"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't ignore your instincts and seek help if you suspect infidelity"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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