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#RI-6ae175e2·about 2 months ago·
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“I chose silence this time”

My husband went no contact after a fight while I'm pregnant, expecting me to beg for forgiveness.

What I wish I knew
"I should've stood up for myself earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't enable an abuser by constantly apologizing and begging for forgiveness"
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Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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