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Mental HealthAbusive Parenting
#RI-6ae7363e·30 days ago·
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Lookback: years of emotional distress

“putting Nair in my nose for years”

My mom forced me to put Nair in my nose despite warnings, leading to physical harm and emotional trauma. She also criticized my self-care and appearance, making me feel ill and inadequate.

What I wish I knew
"Not to put up with abusive behavior and to prioritize my own well-being"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek help and support if you're experiencing similar situations, and don't be afraid to set boundaries and prioritize your own needs"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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