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relationalcheating
#RI-6a6b0347·7 months ago·
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He cheated on me with his childhood friend

He planned our breakup with his new partner and pretended to care about me

What I wish I knew
"He was already in love with her before our breakup"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of people who plan their relationships around their own desires"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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