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#RI-69a91993·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 years of marriage

cheated on my husband

I cheated on my husband, causing problems in our marriage

What I wish I knew
"understanding my own flaws and weaknesses"
If I could tell you one thing
"seek help for personal issues before acting on them"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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