relationalinfidelity
#RI-69a912b4·2 months ago·
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“Cheated on me multiple times early in our relationship”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend cheated on me multiple times early in our relationship but has been a genuinely loving partner for the last year. I love him but I don’t know if I can live with the past.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was capable of cheating before I fell in love with him."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don’t ignore red flags and be honest with yourself about your partner’s intentions."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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