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RelationshipsUnhealthy Attachment
#RI-6a7aa91e·23 days ago·
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Chase after partner after multiple breakups

Boyfriend repeatedly chases me after breakups, causing a cycle of reconciliation and argument

What I wish I knew
"Why he can't let go of the relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries and work on emotional regulation"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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