RelationshipsDating
#RI-6adddd01·about 1 month ago·
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“Chasing wealth and status to attract a partner”
What Actually Happened
Spent 5 years trying to get a girlfriend, still feel unfulfilled
What I wish I knew
"Relationships aren't about material possessions"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't chase external validation, focus on self-improvement"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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