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#RI-6a7aa947·4 months ago·
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Caught partner in a lie on our dating history

Caught my partner lying about his past interactions with someone else, triggering past trauma from a previous relationship

What I wish I knew
"To be honest about everything from the start"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, even if it's uncomfortable"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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