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infidelityCheating Spouse
#RI-6aa0dac8·3 months ago·
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Lookback: almost one year

Thought life was generally good

Caught husband cheating, confronted him, but he denied and gaslighted me

What I wish I knew
"To be more vigilant and trust my instincts"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your gut and don't ignore red flags"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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infidelity Category
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infidelity decisions logged. Avg regret 8.7/10 across the category.
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of infidelity decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.