relationalmarriage
#RI-69a91401·2 months ago·
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“carrying my husband in our marriage”
What Actually Happened
I feel drained and exhausted, like I'm carrying our marriage. I'm questioning its sustainability. I handle work, home, our child, finances, and even help him with jobs.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if this marriage was truly sustainable or if I was just enabling him."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't be afraid to set boundaries and prioritize your own needs in a relationship."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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