What Actually Happened
I feel drained and exhausted, like I'm carrying our marriage. I'm questioning its sustainability. I handle work, home, our child, finances, and even help him with jobs.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if this marriage was truly sustainable or if I was just enabling him."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't be afraid to set boundaries and prioritize your own needs in a relationship."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
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Impact
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